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Finding Hope and Holding On

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Staying Grounded in a Chaotic World

It’s hard to ignore the world these days. The headlines can feel relentless, a constant feed of challenges, crises, and anxieties that seem to grow heavier by the hour. Between economic worries, global conflicts, and the looming reality of climate change, it’s completely normal to feel a deep sense of overwhelm and despair.

But what do you do when the world feels like it’s spinning out of control? Do you unplug completely? Do you let the anxiety consume you? Or is there a way to stay informed and empathetic without sacrificing your inner peace?

I believe that finding a sense of hope isn’t about ignoring the world’s problems; it’s about learning how to protect your own wellbeing so you have the strength to navigate them. It’s about building resilience so you can not only survive but also find a way to contribute positively.


1. Consciously Consume, Don’t Be Consumed

The 24/7 news cycle and social media feeds are designed to keep you engaged, often by triggering your stress and fear. Instead of letting them dictate your mood, take back control. Set a specific time each day, perhaps 15 minutes in the morning and a quick check in the evening, to catch up on the news from a trusted source. Avoid endless scrolling and a constant stream of alerts. This simple practice creates a boundary that protects your mind from being a constant receptacle for global anxieties.

2. Focus on Your “Circle of Influence”

It’s easy to feel powerless when faced with massive, global problems. The key is to shift your focus from your “circle of concern” (the things you worry about but can’t control) to your “circle of influence” (the things you can actually affect). You can’t stop a war, but you can be a kind neighbour. You can’t fix the economy, but you can support a local business. Channel your energy into actions you can take, whether it’s volunteering, donating to a cause you care about, or simply offering a listening ear to a friend. These small acts of agency can be incredibly grounding.

3. Cultivate Daily Gratitude

In a world full of big, scary things, it’s vital to find and appreciate the small, beautiful things right in front of you. This isn’t about being naive, it’s a powerful mindfulness practice. Take a moment each day to notice what you’re grateful for: the warmth of your morning coffee, the green space in your local park, the comfort of your favourite book. These moments anchor you in the present and remind you that even amidst global turbulence, there are still pockets of peace and joy in your immediate world.

4. Find Your Local Sanctuary

London, despite its reputation, is full of sanctuaries. Whether it’s a quiet corner of the British Museum, a winding path through Hampstead Heath, or even a local cafe where you can sit and watch the world go by, find a physical space where you feel safe and calm. Make a point to visit this sanctuary regularly. These intentional escapes are crucial for recharging your mind and reconnecting with a sense of peace.

5. Practice Radical Self-Compassion

Finally, remember that you are human. It’s okay to feel sad, angry, or anxious about what’s happening in the world. You are allowed to be tired. Be kind to yourself and recognize that your own wellbeing is not a luxury, it’s a necessity. True resilience is not about pushing through until you break, it’s about knowing when to rest, when to ask for help, and when to tend to your own mental and emotional needs.

By taking these steps, you’re not ignoring the world. You’re simply ensuring that you can show up for it, and for yourself, with a full cup rather than an empty one. You are building the strength to be a source of calm, no matter what tomorrow brings.

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